Gay virginity (con't)

Many young gays use the old penetration rule used by heterosexuals. The problem is that not ever gay guy is going to be involved with anal sex. It’s possible to consider blowjobs and mutual masturbation as the loss of virginity if you’re not going to do anal sex. But why couldn’t someone just have anal sex and consider themselves a virgin if they don’t participate in oral sex and mutual masturbation? It seems absurd, but maybe we only consider anal sex closer to an actual act of sex because it represents the image of sex that straight intercourse portrays. Sexually stimulating someone else’s body with our own may be enough to be considered sex since all sexual actions are the same at the very core: sexual stimulation.

Maybe gay people should have many gay virginities; anal virginity, masturbated virginity, and oral virginity. You could give all your virginities to that special someone or give one to each of your three favorite lucky guys. I’m not a virgin myself, so I might need to decide how my virginities are given away along with all the other virginal guys out there.

If multiple virginities don’t catch on that’s okay. I have a backup. Losing your virginity might be like having a white pair of pants. You have oral sex and the pants gets stained red. The more you do the more red stains you have. It might feel awkward wearing a pair red stained pants. That’s a lot like how it can be awkward transitioning between being inexperienced and gaining that experience. After you’ve done everything though you’re more confident sexually. That white pair of pants is fully dyed and stops being stained; it simply becomes a beautiful red pair of pants and ever new experience makes it a little richer in color. That's why I were RED pants.